We all have different sides to ourselves. We are multi-faceted individuals, dynamic and adaptive in nature. We have many layers and sides to ourselves. Some of us have more layers than others. Some of us have more “selves” than others. Sometimes, one side comes out more often than another does. However, despite this, within all of us, we all possess a core — our true, inner being of our selves.

This is one side of ourselves that some of us choose to show at all times, some of us choose to show sometimes, and some of us choose to show rarely. The degree to which we reveal our true selves varies between individuals.

No matter how many people there are in your life, no matter how many people you meet, no matter how many people you come across… No matter what anybody thinks, there is nothing more important than being yourself.

When you choose to be somebody else other than yourself, you are attracting people who are attracted to that “somebody else” you are portraying…. They are attracted to your mask - they are not attracted to the real you.  Would you be satisfied with people who liked you for what they thought you were, instead of who you really are?

No matter what anybody else thinks about you, you are good enough. You are you. You should be you. You shouldn’t try to be anybody else.

Because those who love you for you will eventually reveal themselves when the veneer curtains part ways. They will be the ones who remain after the others have left.

And aren’t these the people who you want in your life?

Don’t you want the people who love you for who you are in your life?